Frequently Asked Questions
Session Instructions
Address
315 Ashmore Road, Benowa
Gold Coast, Australia
Arrival
Message me on 0456 659 077 when you have arrived.
Parking
Free onsite visitor parking is provided.
Time
Please arrive a few minutes before your appointment time. Thank you ♥
Answers
The following section should hopefully answer most, if not all, your questions. However if you still have anything on your mind then feel free to contact us.
- General
- Bodywork
- Tantra
General information about how we operate.
Benowa, Gold Coast.
We are presently delivering our world class tantra services from a peaceful private location designed to enhance your comfort and overall experience.
Free parking is available at the property. You are welcome to enter the driveway and park in the expansive parking area.
Contact us to discuss if you have any questions.
Bookings can be made online via our booking page.
Payment is required upon booking. Payment by cash on the day is available to approved clients, contact us for more details.
NOTE: Our online booking system can only book sessions 2 hours in advance. Regular clients may call for availability if nearby.
6 days by appointment only; between 10 am and 8 pm Monday to Friday, and 12 pm to 7 pm on Saturday. We are closed on Sunday.
Feel free to call, email or SMS us during these times to discuss how we can help you. We will endeavour to respond to your communication as quickly as possible.
Yes you can.
All sessions offered can be extended, preferably prior to the time of your appointment to ensure more time can be allocated to you. Alternatively you are welcome to ask if your time can be extended during the session.
Extra time will incur extra fees and these amounts vary according to the type of massage. Please note we usually only offer an extension for regular clients.
We require 4 hours notice to incur no penalty.
We realise that there can be unforeseen circumstances and always treat our clients with care and understanding. That said, we turn away other clients to hold your booking so cancellations with less notice may result in a $50 service charge. Thank you for understanding.
See our full policy here
Arriving late will limit the time for your session.
We recommend arriving a little early so you get the most out of your session.
My services are of a sensual and sexual nature but do not include sex.
To clarify, I do not:
- work with people seeking a girlfriend experience.
- tolerate requests for sexual acts.
- role play personal fantasies.
The tantra I do:
- can involve the erogenous zones if this is desired.
- may bring about states of extreme arousal.
- is designed to lead you to greater levels of erotic bliss in the bedroom.
Generally speaking, touch is one-way from practitioner to client, however there are some exceptions.
The Lomi Lomi Massage and Tantric Bodywork I offer are both sensual and to some extent erotic in nature. See the relevant pages for more information about these services.
Gift certificates are available in our online shop and make a wonderful gift for the special people in your life.
We can also arrange for the gift certificate to be sent to you or your loved one. Contact us for more details.
Discounted packages are available in our online shop.
Purchasing a bulk pack upfront helps us and we reward you by offering a generous discount.
Our policies can be found here.
Feel free to contact us if you have any queries or feedback.
Information about the bodywork services we provide.
The purpose of tantric bodywork is to offer people experiential learning, healing and growth opportunities and expanded experiences of self in a safe and caring environment.
While the mind can understand a concept, physical states such as receptivity, surrender and arousal are felt and remembered in the body. Through being present with and working with the body we can experience a ripple effect throughout our entire being, including at the mental level.
Bodywork holds you in a safe and compassionate container while journeying within the self, providing the support needed for a deeper exploration of the nature of your eros energy and sexuality. It allows time and space to be dedicated to your own needs, intentions and self-awareness.
Bodywork is not for everyone, however, and coaching alone may effectively meet a person with what they need or where they are currently at in their journey. Your personal circumstance can be discussed during a free enquiry call which can be booked online.
No.
The only prerequisite is that, you come with an open mind and heart, to allow yourself the opportunity to have new life expanding experiences.
Clients often experience some nervousness during their first appointment.
Spending a portion of time chatting at the beginning allows you time to relax, ask questions and learn how to get the most out of the bodywork.
Yes.
Sessions involving bodywork include the opportunity to shower; which doubles as a time to reflect and integrate the session.
No.
I work with clothes on.
These sessions are for those who wish to live more open-heartedly and cultivate a deeper connection with themselves, loved ones, and life as a whole.
It is for people who are receptive to new perspectives, willing to be vulnerable and feel more of themselves, and who wish to build a deeper connection between their sexual and heart centres (i.e., explore their sexuality/eros energy beyond solely the physicality and instead infused with the purity and consciousness of the heart).
Anything that feels comfortable for you and allows you to move easily.
Make-up can be smudged during bodywork and worrying about it could reduce your feeling of relaxation and pleasure.
Strong perfume or aftershave can become overpowering, so please consider avoiding or limiting its use on the day of your appointment.
Yes.
Clients who are in long term, committed relationships/marriages may want to explore tantra to become a better lover for their partner. Honesty and transparency with your partner is encouraged; however we understand that this is not always possible.
Your work with us will always be held in strict confidentiality.
During the bodywork, clients mostly experience the mind switching off, tension releasing from the body, deep relaxation, the senses coming alive and eros activation.
Clients will have a reference point in their bodies of what it feels like to experience “relaxed arousal”. The bodywork experience is unique to each individual as well from session to session. However, some common experiences are: sensing energy activating, releasing and expanding through the body, heightened sensitivity, shaking, tremors, body contractions, higher states of consciousness, unresolved memories or life themes surfacing to be integrated, heart openings, psychedelic-like visualisations, emotions such as joy, rage, fear, bliss, shame and relief, and states like crying, laughter, clarity and confidence.
By the end of the session most clients feel deeply relaxed, nurtured and nourished. In the immediate period after the session, some clients are very energised and others feel very tired and need to rest. The energy and experience of the session can be present in a client’s awareness for hours or even days afterwards.
We recommend taking time out to chill and be present after your session so you can fully integrate the benefits.
The role of the practitioner is to create a safe space that invites vulnerability and permission to experience and be received as you are in each moment without judgement.
Your practitioner will facilitate the deepening of awareness regarding sensations and communication with the body inviting you to experience a greater realisation of the magnificent being that you are. By gently guiding you to lean into opportunities of expanded states and greater awareness of who you are.
These sessions are not about forming a personal connection but rather having a safe and warm container to explore your own body and sexuality. The aim being to subsequently apply these experiences and learnings in your daily life to create deeper fulfilment in yourself and within your relationships.
The touch is devotional and sacred in nature. While there is the same warmth and professionalism like that of an alternative health practitioner, the nature of bodywork and sexuality is uniquely vulnerable and highly intimate. The experience of devotional touch is one of neutrality, integrity, nurturing, reverence, connection to the body and unconditional presence and love.
The aim of the practitioner is to tune into the layers of your being in each moment to be right there with you, immersing in the moments of wonder, connection and discovery with you, yet with enough space that you unfold into your heart on your own unique sacred journey.
My services are of a sensual and sexual nature but do not include sex.
To clarify, I do not:
- work with people seeking a girlfriend experience.
- tolerate requests for sexual acts.
- role play personal fantasies.
The tantra I do:
- can involve the erogenous zones if this is desired.
- may bring about states of extreme arousal.
- is designed to lead you to greater levels of erotic bliss in the bedroom.
Generally speaking, touch is one-way from practitioner to client, however there are some exceptions.
The Lomi Lomi Massage and Tantric Bodywork I offer are both sensual and to some extent erotic in nature. See the relevant pages for more information about these services.
This is unique to the individual.
Some people benefit from a one-off session; others may be working with a particular challenge and find that a block of sessions is better. While others may prefer a coaching framework for ongoing support and guidance to achieve their goal or intention.
Deepening into your body and sensual self is a lifelong exploration and journey. Finding resonance with the right practitioner can open a doorway for the magic you are ready to receive. I hope I can be that person for you.
Here are some tips to help you prepare for your session so you can get the most out of it:
- Reflect on the reason you made the booking
- Get in touch with your intention for the session
- Allow plenty of time for travel
- Wear comfortable clothing that allow full range of movement
- A journal may be helpful
- No alcohol or drugs 24 hours prior to your session
- No strong scents or perfume
- Arrive with an open mind and open heart
- Make a commitment of time and willingness to your journey of discovery
- No strong scents or perfume
- Enjoy the session! ♥
No.
This style of bodywork works with the nervous system, which requires time to allow your system to unwind at its own pace. Most people are amazed at how quickly the time flies by during the session.. and want more!!
Yoni massage is offered within your boundaries and consent and at your own pace.
Your boundaries may change throughout the session too and you are encouraged to communicate what you need in each moment.
Sessions may include external touch only or both external and internal touch. The value of sessions is no greater or less with or without internal touch.
It is simply honouring your choices on the day and meeting your body with what you are ready for.
Working with long standing tension/trauma in the body takes time for the nervous system to recalibrate and imprint a new way of being.
This is in contrast to much of Western dogma and environmental conditioning such as 'quick fix' approaches, instant gratification and endless supply of dopamine hits. The overreliance on feel-good chemicals, and/or a plethora of self-medication pursuits, disconnects us from the intelligence and sacredness of the body. We end up losing, or never acquiring, the ability to tune into the body; leaving our nervous systems wound up from chronic busyness, daily stresses and subtle traumas, etc...
Access to vitality and a greater sense of wholeness is a journey of layers. During our work there are ever unfolding opportunities to meet new parts of yourself and experience new sensations and states of being, which can inspire a path of gratitude and contentment, a renewed love of life and the allowance of more of love into our daily existence.
Fortunately rewiring the body to subtle pleasure pathways is a yummy endeavour, and momentum, once gained, is powerful in creating ever greater results as you continue on the journey of self-discovery.
Information about Tantra and the coaching services we offer.
Tantra is both an approach to life and a spiritual practice emphasizing physical experience. American, or Western Tantra, also called Neo-Tantra, teaches a set of practices to deepen sexual experience and use sexual energy as a ‘rocket fuel’ for spiritual growth and intimacy.
Learning tantra may include breathwork, bodywork, movement, energy work, ritual, sound, touch, meditation and guidance. Tantra is practiced in one-on-one sessions and in workshops, both for singles and couples.
More and more people are discovering Tantra and its power to change lives. We welcome you to participate and experience the power of tantra.
Coaching is a partnership where the coach supports and holds the highest intention of possibility for the person they are coaching.
There are many kinds of coaches: sports coaches, life coaches, financial coaches, success coaches, etc... When you go to see a coach they will have deep rooted experience with the field in which you want to improve. Most coaches have been trained in a set of tools that allow them to facilitate the pursuit of excellence in that area.
I have been studying and practicing tantra for over a decade and hold certificates with several schools of tantra. Thus you will receive a high level of excellence when you join me for Tantra Coaching.
I do everything I can to give clients an uplifting and deeply nurturing experience that is simultaneously educational and deeply transformative.
I have been practicing as a Tantra Therapist for a long time now, so rest assured you are in good hands. Generally speaking clients will acquire new tools, skills and insights as well as a deeper sense of self-love that makes their love life, and their life in general, much better and richer.
Tantra is for people who have a genuine desire to look deeply into themselves; it is a path open for anyone to journey.
Tantra can help people become more complete, compassionate, joyful and ecstatic in themselves, and their connections with others are correspondingly enriched.
Tantra is a path of sacred love – of focusing on the self and the journey within for healing, awareness, love, and acceptance that will ultimately lead to self-realization. Within this path, you have the opportunity to awaken and access your vital life force energy, and expand into higher states of consciousness to release what is holding you back.
You will learn to recognise your true essence, value and unlimited capacity to experience love more fully. This enables you to embody your authentic power to your fullest human potential.
During your Tantra Coaching program you will receive:
A non-judgmental, safe and nurturing space to allow you and support you to express everything that is arising for you and to unfold both in time and energetics at a pace that totally honors you – no matter where you are at.
Insight and clarity around connecting to your true self and authentic expression. The answers lie within you, in your stillness. In the silence of guided meditation, breathwork, energywork and visualization, you connect with your true self and communicate with the deepest levels of your mind and soul to create wonderful shifts in consciousness to change your beliefs, thoughts, feelings and behavior.
Inspiration, support & practical guidance to explore your thoughts and patterns of behavior, identify the beliefs that are holding you back, gain a new perspective and develop a personal action plan.
Practical tools to connect within and transform your relationship with yourself, others and life itself. Includes Tantric principles, tools and techniques, embodiment practices, inner dialogue, bodywork, breathwork, emotional release, movement, energy re-balancing, meditation, psychological integration, inner child healing, shadow work, and more.
Homework & practical – includes processing, relating, journaling, meditating, completing the homework and exercises each week, to move you beautifully into embodying and integrating new conscious awakening processes into your body and truly living what we touch upon in the sessions.
Our Tantra Coaching involves tools that move you into a place of greater awareness, of reconnecting with your higher-self, Source, wisdom, intuition, truth and love that is sometimes hidden within.
Lauren has a way to crack open, to unravel, to dive in, to dig deep &
to discover your truth. She will examine your ideas of survival, safety and protection that came from a decision somewhere in your life, and will help you to realize these unconscious choices you have made, thereby releasing you from that tie and freeing you into your True Self.
You will be offered deep insight, simple principles and practical steps to follow on your personal journey out of those negative emotions and patterns of behavior that cause pain and suffering in your inner and outer relationships. These truths are significant to your healing and promote self-awareness, personal growth, spiritual awakening, and lasting transformation.
You will discover powerful resources within you to upgrade your approach towards the various challenges life present and towards your interactions with others both in and out of the bedroom.
Tantra Coaching has a dual function of both healing and learning.
The goal of Tantric practice is to help the client build a stronger relationship with their inner-self through breathwork, mindfulness, meditation, energywork, bodywork and human connection. By studying with a Tantric Guide you are learning to use Tantra, an inherently healing practice, in your everyday life.
You will complete your Tantra Coaching program with a new set of powerful tools to help you feel more empowered to thrive on your unique journey here on planet Earth.
Tantra is a magnificent and extremely vast body of knowledge.
Only a very small part of it addresses sexuality. So you can practice Tantra without ever working with sexuality if that is your preference. Most people have actually done that for hundreds of years.
However, what Tantra has to teach around sexuality is earth shattering. It is superb, ancient yet ground breaking, and oh so needed in our modern society. And it’s the only place where you’ll find it.
It’s not in scientific research - not yet, not in the medical world, not in magazines, God knows it’s not in porn, and it’s not even in conscious sexuality.
Whether you are into Tantra for better sex, sacred intimacy or enlightenment, I guarantee you’ll find it.
Tantra is about expansion and connection with others; and ultimately about our perception of Self and reality.
Tantra Coaching uses various techniques such as: deep breathing, relaxation and connecting exercises to help drop you into 'reality' to truly see, feel and experience the sensations in your body.
There are many benefits of tantra including:-
> Better sex and relationships
> Increased energy & drive
> Increased creativity & motivation
> Improved health & happiness
> Better sex and relationships
> Reversal of aging
> Reduced stress & better sleep
We will be addressing all the different areas that make up sacred intimacy.
Physical opening, cultivating energetic awareness, emotional opening, and learning how to bring love, spirituality, and sexuality together. The learning will happen on many different levels and explores various topics and aspects.
It depends where you are in your journey of healing.
Most likely, if you are at the stage of being able to speak about your issues and know them a little bit, you are at a stage where my coaching can be an effective way for you to heal more.
It is totally understandable that you may be scared and apprehensive about joining me for Tantra Coaching. I have worked with these issues a lot and understand the dynamic of fear coupled with a longing for healing.
You can always call me and talk to me about your specific situation and I can provide my professional advice about whether the coaching is appropriate or not. To begin the journey into Tantra I recommend starting with a Tantric Bodywork session, or even a Lomi Lomi Massage as these will ease you back into your sensual body at a gentle pace tailor-made for you.
Yes.
In fact lots of times only one partner in a couple attends my coaching sessions. They then take home to their partner the tools learned in the coaching and all the insights they had. Participation in my coaching is designed to respect the sanctity of your relationship.
Many sexual issues can be helped with attentive care and guidance.
Tantra Coaching can help people overcome various problems such as erectile difficulties, ejaculation and orgasm challenges, and more...
You are invited to speak with me in confidence about how I can help you.
Contact us via message form anytime or via phone during business hours.
As always we welcome your comments, feedback and questions. Wishing you a great day and the best of health.